As someone who has been involved in the domestic violence field since 1994, I find that quote from Karl to be so wrong-headed it's painful. Conflating a man's murder of his partner with some kind of rebellion-against-the-father *completely* misses what's really going on, and even glorifies such a murder as part of a rebellion against authority.

I'm supposed to be all about non-violence, but I'd really like to slap Karl. Hard.

Melanie in Albuquerque