Its so hard to fight this kind of thing. I am black so very rarely hear racist remarks. (people are much too careful) But I run into a similar issue when people say "that's so gay." When I try to confront them about this and call them on being homophobic I either face derision myself or am told that its not homophobic at all. Its frustrating to explain the problem and often I feel I shouldn't have to but I guess they feel the same way.
every time I have to fight some ignorant child I've heard use the word "gay" to mean stupid, lame, or generally lacking. But, fight it I do. Nope, you can't have that word. That's OURS.
I saw you at Readercon! We talked about porn at you repeatedly. (And sometimes, the Death of Vegetables; and occasionally Signatures and an Excess of Books. It was all Capital.)
Thanks for reading "Elegy" to us--I had forgotten just how much I adored Booth. Or, I suppose, Kyle. :)
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Date: 2008-07-10 02:54 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-07-10 03:18 am (UTC)When I try to confront them about this and call them on being homophobic I either face derision myself or am told that its not homophobic at all. Its frustrating to explain the problem and often I feel I shouldn't have to but I guess they feel the same way.
I feel much the same...
Date: 2008-07-10 10:48 pm (UTC)Re: I feel much the same...
Date: 2008-07-21 04:51 am (UTC)gosh
Date: 2008-07-11 12:40 am (UTC)I give it 24 hours before it hits fandom wank - which could be a good thing.
Re: gosh
Date: 2008-07-14 01:39 pm (UTC)I sometimes read fandom wank, and my understanding is that they don't post about racism; they say it's never funny.
Re: gosh
Date: 2008-07-16 04:20 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-07-21 04:50 am (UTC)I saw you at Readercon! We talked about porn at you repeatedly. (And sometimes, the Death of Vegetables; and occasionally Signatures and an Excess of Books. It was all Capital.)
Thanks for reading "Elegy" to us--I had forgotten just how much I adored Booth. Or, I suppose, Kyle. :)
~Becca